Making friends with your body

August 31st, 2007 by Celeste

Having found a place with a little privacy, we sit in the sun to talk. Talking seems to be the most important part today. He’s young, 30-something, and things are not going well with his girlfriend. There is a look of worry in his eyes. I want to take him into my arms like a mother and comfort him. So we sit in the sun and talk, and several times… Continue reading


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True to myself

August 29th, 2007 by Celeste

How many times have I returned to this lesson? We complete, he leaves, I reflect on the nature of this satisfaction. So simple. It is this – that I have been true to myself. That is all that is required. Ever.

What we did, or didn’t do, is of little consequence to this peace. While holding each other, at the end, I reflect on the feeling of completion. I feel compete… Continue reading


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Different desires

August 29th, 2007 by Celeste

I went to a Cuddle Party the other night. It was awesome! They take you through a little workshop intro thing about choices and communicating and the rules [www.cuddleparty.com].

But one thing they said was that the two most common fears that people bring is 1) no-one will want to cuddle me, and 2) someone will want to cuddle me that I don’t want to cuddle. Of course they deal with… Continue reading


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Sacred Intimate / Sacred Whore

August 23rd, 2007 by Celeste

Sacred Intimate – sounds righteous, no? That’s what I am, and that’s what I tell most people, but to myself, I’m a sacred whore. I love that word. I wear it proudly. Whores will do things that most people only wish they could, only wish they had the guts for. Which is, perhaps, why I love it. Whores are not afraid to say yes and to say no, even to… Continue reading


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What is a Sacred Intimate?

August 20th, 2007 by Celeste

Let’s start with what a Sacred Intimate is. Now that I ask it, it suddenly seems a very big question! Here’s a very short version – a Sacred Intimate interacts with you in a way that provides an opportunity for you to learn something about yourself erotically.

So -
What’s the difference between erotic and sexual?
What kinds of interactions?
What’s there to learn?
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Tears, touch and a journey

August 15th, 2007 by Celeste

It’s an auspicious night to start a blog. Rosy glow over the city skyline, mountains deep purple and outlined in orange, lights just blinking on downtown.

And this morning I had the good fortune to spend an hour on my own massage table, blessed and caressed by the loving hands of my friend, another sacred intimate. It felt so good I wept – this is how I long to be touched! Continue reading


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